In a similarly named post, I mentioned the repetitive, intangible rewards children “earn” through playing video games. Their desire for positive feedback and rewards becomes incited to the point of obsession. What if, instead, they became more interested in gaining positive feedback from following God and engaging with the people God made for that purpose?
It is not too early to nudge your child toward pleasing God through loving and serving people and not toward serving a virtual technological scorekeeper. After all, Ephesians 5:30 reminds us that “we are members of his body.” We will want to train our children to act like it.
Offering Positive Feedback Examples of the Human Variety
Think about the amount of time in a week your child interacts with technology versus with you (or others). If human contact is inadequate, they may become more accustomed to satisfying their gadget’s commands and goals. They may be less inclined to serve their parents and other people for God’s purposes. Consider if, in your child, positive feedback garnered from technology diminishes their desire for positive feedback from family and friends. The people around them may become more unnecessary than people are supposed to be.
You can offer positive feedback of the tangible human variety. You can be a source that satisfies their innate need for attention and Continue reading