This book review on "Choosing Civility: The Twenty-Five Rules of Considerate Conduct" was first published in 2013 and updated on 2/20/19.  In December 2018, P.M. Forni died; the New York Times obituary with a reference to other works can be found here . In his book on civility, he made a compelling case that our children need to learn civility for their own happiness. Choosing Civility at Home As a young girl ...